PARENT-IN0LAW,
RELATIONSHIP
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Hereunder there are some general issue
that can causes conflict between pair and parent-in-law, also tips to overcome
it. parent-in-law and son-in-law
1. resent habit
everyone, belong parent-in-law, has
resent habit. for example, too much sugar that putted into into tea, or narated over and over again problem, and another.
as pair, make resent list from second
parents, then collect all their good purposes. final, you two agree to care
about it or laugh their behaviour.
2. censure
there parent-in-law not hesitant
narated to another person if they felt you make wrong. this matter depend on
you to decides, what will be be cared comment.
may be you care about dish exercise the
comment or craft cuts grass, but set mind on to stop to commented if they have
haved in the case of career or principle affair have familiy.
3. watch over connection
there family haves, of vital importance
to speak every day with parent-in-law. but there also opinion, enough once in a
while speak telephonic. but, if felted this matter coms, you must overcome it.
for example if phone, not ever there that answer, inste, pay a visit to the
house and make shock. isn't it true that this is good matter?
4. freedom
in a discussion, several families felts
unfavorable talks openly a problem. may be, this caused education surface and
different habit. as pair, you must approve matters that ready made habit. and
talk about in what be must be keeped parents, for example financially or
well-being. or, decide to speak only wrongly one from them. important, you two
know what approved.
5. shake together with family
marriage programme, idul fitri holiday
or christmas one of [the]
disagreement cause at many families.
try to plan it well and let everybody detect what you decide. you and pair may
be also detect strong family tradition, so to prepare to bertoleransi.
